Hey guys, how has your past week been so far? Mine has gone by so fast and like always it has had ups and downs and many self-doubts. I thought I would write about a topic that I have Googled many times but usually don’t find the answer I am looking for so maybe by me writing this could be some of the answers you are looking for (hopefully).

I think eventually the time comes in everyone’s life where they have hit a roadblock, they have completed all of the things they wanted to or something has happened to make you realize you have literally no idea what to do?!?

First breathe and remember this either has happened or will happen to everyone it’s a natural and potentially fun part of life, but first you have to accept that it’s happening to start with. Then you can start planning what to do next!

When it comes to the work you do, I have come to the realization that it may not be necessary to find your calling, everyone has one but it develops over time and in ways that happen once you start the doing.

Its not so much what you do, but more why you are doing it, for example if why you want to do work because you want to empower woman then this can be achieved in so many ways depending on what you think will work best for you and your lifestyle. Maybe its opening up your own clothing store or working as a women’s only counselor. Although it can be as little as starting to believe in yourself which will spill onto all aspects of your life and other peoples lives. This is just an example, so what is your “WHY”? Then you can find the most appropriate job for you.

Getting lost once in awhile is normal and healthy you just have to remember that and then move forward. The key is too keep moving forward and trusting your own intuition because I have found it to always be right besides you generally only regret the things you didn’t do in life.

A few other ideas to do when you don’t know what to do include:

Spend time with people who care about you and only want the best for you, they will remind you of your strengths and fun side.

Make up your own affirmations, or use mine! My favorite to tell myself are: ‘Either way I will be okay’, ‘Today is a good day’ and ‘Today is going to be the best day of my life’ whether you think it sounds strange or not, who cares affirmations work and make you feel better about your life situation.

Finally remember that this will also pass, everything is life is temporary including not knowing what to do.

Hopefully this has been helpful. Remember the only reason I know how to write about this is because I have felt the same way.

Hopefully you can get some style inspiration from the below look, just keeping is casual 😉 .

Take care of yourself and dare to be seen.

Anna x